Michael
by Maureen McElaney
Michael is a 13 year old boy who wished for a shopping spree, a simple wish but as all wishes it was inspirational. Michael is very ill, in acute renal failure, congestive heart failure and had to go on a dialysis machine every night for 10 hours. He would get so weak he could not walk for more then a few steps. His mom is deceased and his sister is also sick. His sister has 2 children whose grandmother-a wonderful woman-who agreed to be his guardian to make sure he got the proper medical care and followed a special diet for people on dialysis. I brought my 13 year old son along to help out. I can't help but think how fortunate I was to have a healthy son. He helped carry the shopping bags and we took turns pushing Michael around in his wheelchair. It was fun for everyone helping Michael look for the things that he was looking for. It was very important to him to have just the right clothes.a winter jacket with fur around the hood and a cap that matched the color of his sneakers. He looked long and hard to find just the right cap. Part of his wish was also that he buys some things for his family. It was very important to him and he made sure he took care of that before he started to shop for himself. He bought a pair of shoes for his niece and nephew first and then his guardian. Michael is only allowed to eat regular food 2 days a week. For lunch, he wanted a McDonald's cheeseburger but he decided to eat at Bennigans because that's where everyone else really wanted to eat. It inspired me that as sick as he was, he was always thinking of others. The family had alot of fun riding in the limo too. It was a big SUV style limo and the limo driver stopped and filled it with some balloons on the way to pick them up. All in all it was a fun day, and although I was happy to be part of it, I also felt sad thinking that this cute, kind hearted young boy may not be around much longer. One other thing that touched me was, at lunch, his cousin was talking about what he wants to be when he grows up and asked Michael what he wants to be when he grows up. Michael said, "I don't know." I thought to myself how sad and that he knows he probably is not going to grow up. It makes me realize how we take sooooo much for granted in this life. While you can't help the sadness-at the same time, there is the joy at making someone's life improve, helping them to enjoy the time they have, having some fun, eating real food, and getting some nice clothes to keep him warm for the winter.and hopefully more winters to come. His guardian was very appreciative for what we did. She surely has her hands full and cares for this boy and the other children with so much love. You can see they are well taken care of with what they have. Coordinating Michael's wish was a rewarding and enriching experience. By being part of the day that was centered on him and, with his mom deceased, I felt like his mom for the day. It made me realize that some kids have so little and the smallest things make them happy. It also made me realize how we take things for granted: our health, our material possessions and how much we give our own children. I thought this 13 year boy, just like my son, would want to buy video games and CDs and stuff like that but he bought boots, hats, shoes and winter jacket for himself and shoes for his niece, nephew and cousin.basic necessities of life. That really struck me for some reason and left such an impression.